Franchetti also gave recommendations based on her experiences in Family Court, where she and Kyra’s father fought over custody for years. First and foremost, Franchetti says, a child’s safety must be made a top priority in custody cases.
“It is common sense, but somehow not a practice,” Franchetti said. “Some may say that it’s a matter of the child’s best interest, but that’s still not putting a child’s safety first.”
Second, according to Franchetti, training for all involved must be enhanced across the board.
“[Child Protective Services] noted that [Kyra’s father] had anger and rage issues, that he had an inability to care for her,” Franchetti said. “The forensic evaluator for our case still said in his report that the situation was ‘low risk.’ There’s no transparency, no accountability, nothing states what specifically should go into this report.”
Training would also be necessary for judges, she says. Franchetti recalls that during her time in court, at one point Nassau County Family Court Judge Danielle Peterson told her to “grow up.”
“The judge also said, ‘this is not a life or death situation,’ and she was wrong,” Franchetti said. “Because of Judge Danielle Peterson, Kyra will never grow up.”
Peterson and the Nassau Family Court did not immediately respond to a request for comment via fax.
Lastly, Franchetti says that accountability and transparency must be present in the family court system.
“Everyone in Kyra’s case – the judge, the forensic evaluator, Kyra’s attorney, who refused to take necessary steps to protect her – is still practicing today,” Franchetti said.
Franchetti described the Assembly members favorably, and specifically thanked Assemblyman Andrew Hevesi (D-Forest Hills), chairman of the Committee on Social Services, Assemblywoman Ellen Jaffee (D-Pearl River), chairwoman of the Committee on Children and Families, and Assemblyman Jeffrey Dinowitz (D-Bronx), chair of the Committee on Judiciary.
“Assemblyman Dinowitz promised to make changes, and that is a wonderful step forward for us,” Franchetti said.
For parents who are now in the situation that she was in 2016, Franchetti recommends further action.
“The system right now is set up to protect the abuser and not the child, and it is the scariest thing to go through this way,” Franchetti said. “The only way is to pass legislation. Pick up the phone, call your state senator or assemblyperson, and tell them it’s time to protect our children.”
Franchetti says Kyra was a “silly, happy, giggly, fiercely independent” girl who used to play at Mary Jane Davies Green in Manhasset and in the parks of Port Washington, where Franchetti worked. The last day they were together, she says, Kyra had learned how to roll down a hill.
“She looked at me and said, ‘I did it, Mama,'” Franchetti said. “I miss her every second of every day.”